Analysis Paralysis? What to Do Before Sticking Something Permanent on You
So, you’ve been staring at 500 Pins per bathroom break and this appointment date is near. Or, you don’t even know which artist to contact yet because you’ve got that itch again but don’t even know how to scratch it. You’re thinking about something dainty behind your ear…or something light like a full black out sleeve or a full back piece worthy of an art museum. The question is the same: How do I choose the right tattoo design for me?
Great question. And no pressure or anything, but this is permanent. Okay, okay — don’t panic. You’re not alone, and we’re here to walk you through it all with a warm hug of a blog post, a splash of humor, and a whole lot of solid advice. And, remember, we are always gonna want to go bigger, make one more highlight, or just wipe it one more time regardless.
Let’s dive into the magical (and slightly overwhelming) world of tattoo design and how to land on something you’ll love forever — or at least won’t regret by tomorrow morning.
Step 1: Start with Meaning… or Not
Some people get tattoos to commemorate loved ones, milestones, or spiritual beliefs. Others just really, really like frogs in cowboy hats. Both are valid. Both are fun. Both can totally be a thing.
If you want a meaningful tattoo, think about symbols, quotes, or imagery that represent something personal. It doesn’t have to make sense to anyone but you. If you want something aesthetic or trendy, that’s great too. You don’t have to attach a deep backstory to your ink. The meaning can simply be: “It makes me giggle every time I look in the mirror.”
You know you better than we do. We are here to bring visions to life, not pass judgment. Most artists probably have tattoos that you would think are dumb anyways…and a lot of times they are our favorite ones.
Step 2: Get Inspired, Not Imitative
Yes, Pinterest is your friend. So is Instagram. Scroll to your heart’s content. Save everything that catches your eye — even if it’s wildly different from each other.
But here’s the catch: don’t just copy someone else’s tattoo. First, it’s kind of rude to the original artist and the client wearing their one-of-a-kind design. Second, your body deserves something unique. Use those images as a jumping-off point and work with your artist to create something custom. If you trust the process, we can make you something you love even more because it’s yours and not a rip off.
Step 3: Consider Your Style
Tattoo styles are like genres of music — each has its own vibe:
Traditional (American Traditional): Bold lines, limited color pallets, classic imagery (think anchors, roses, pin-ups).
Fine Line: Delicate, detailed, usually black ink with minimal shading. Some artists mix it up by adding color.
Watercolor: Soft gradients and splashes of color that look like brush strokes.
Blackwork: Solid black tattoos with intricate patterns or designs.
Realism: Hyper-detailed portraits, scenes, objects, etc. Can be done in black and grey or color.
Neo-Traditional: Like traditional, but with more depth, color, and modern flair. This style lets you bend the traditional rules, but gives you that same bold and crispy vibe.
Illustrative: Combines elements of realism and sketchy linework, often whimsical.
You don’t have to commit to just one style forever, but it helps to know what speaks to you now. There are many styles not listed above, and are many styles that artist will discover along the way. The craft and art of tattooing is always evolving.
Step 4: Size and Placement Matter
A delicate floral tattoo may look lovely sprawled across your hip down to your thigh, but may crease out on your wrist. A dreamy mountain scene? Probably not ideal for a pinky finger. The name of the person you left last night, maybe just not at all or at least in an area you can easily cover it down the road.
Think about:
How visible you want your tattoo to be (especially if your job has limitations regarding body art).
How much pain you’re okay with (you don’t have to be the Brave Little Toaster every time).
How the tattoo will look as it ages and as your body changes (some things just don’t sit quite like they used to).
If you’re unsure, your artist can help guide you — they’re trained to understand how tattoos work with the contours and movement of your body. Proper placement and flow is the little bit of spice we all need!
Step 5: Think Long-Term-Ish
Let’s be real — trends come and go. That minimalist dinosaur outline you love today might feel less relevant in ten years. But here’s the thing: tattoos don’t have to be timeless masterpieces. They can be time capsules.
So yes, give some thought to how you might feel about the design later, but don’t let the fear of future regret stop you from expressing yourself now. You’re allowed to evolve. But do listen to your artist about how to make sure that minimalist dinosaur is still a ferocious little fella in 10 years , instead of over the next 10 months.
Step 6: Don’t Rush the Process
Tattoo FOMO is real, especially if all your friends are suddenly getting inked. But take your time. Sit with your idea. Print it out. Tape it to your mirror. Make it your phone background. If you still love it in a few weeks or months, that’s a great sign. Sometimes the sign is absolutely that you are already there and the vibes are right. Sometimes getting a face tattoo because your favorite new rapper did it, meanwhile the rest of your body is nakey, might warrant a second thought.
Also, trust your artist’s timeline. Good work takes time — and you don’t want a rushed version of your forever art. If a piece takes longer than expected but your artist has been working so diligently every session that you begin to question if they’re actually a cyborg, trust that they are giving you every ounce of care they can to make your tattoo the best it can be. Artist work at different paces, and that’s okay.
Step 7: Find the Right Artist for Your Vision
Every artist has their strengths. Once you know the style and subject you want, look for an artist who specializes in that. Consult the cards. Stalk their Instagram. Read their reviews. Reach out and see if your personalities vibe.
A great artist will collaborate with you, tweak your ideas, and make sure the final design fits your body and your vision.
Step 8: Ask the Right Questions
Before you commit to the design and the artist, don’t be afraid to ask:
Have you done this type of design before?
Do you have any suggestions for size/placement?
Can you walk me through your design process?
If they’re cagey or dismissive, that’s a red flag. The best artists are open, helpful, and excited to create something just for you. Many artist will be thrilled you chose them out of all the creative fish in the sea!
Step 9: Know What to Avoid
Sometimes, a design idea sounds good in theory but... maybe not in practice. Consider:
Trends that are too trendy: QR codes, infinity symbols with names, “Live Laugh Love” in cursive.
Copying celebrity tattoos: Your skin deserves more originality than Pete Davidson’s Pinterest board. Even he doesn’t want his own tattoos anymore.
Tiny detailed tattoos in tricky areas: Super-fine designs can blur over time, especially on fingers or feet. Or disappear into thin air. You could probably hire a magician for a cooler and more cost-effective magic trick.
Let your artist steer you away from designs that won’t age well. It’s not criticism — it’s care.
Step 10: Be Open to Evolution
Sometimes the tattoo you imagined turns into something a little different — and better. Trust the process. Your artist might suggest adjustments that improve the composition, balance, or readability of the tattoo. (Definitely double check that spelling and your anniversary date though…we are here to decorate not authenticate).
After all, you’re not just picking art — you’re wearing it. It should work with your body and lifestyle. We want to help you claim and celebrate your body!
Bonus: It’s Okay to Be Nervous
Feeling unsure doesn’t mean you’re not ready. It means you care. Choosing a tattoo design is a big deal, and that little flutter in your stomach is part of the adventure.
Talk it through with your artist, a friend, or even your barista if they’re unusually invested in your ink journey. Just make sure the final decision comes from you.
Final Thoughts: Ink What You Love
Choosing a tattoo design isn’t about pleasing anyone but yourself. Don’t worry if your design doesn’t have a deep backstory (or will disappoint Aunt Judy) or if it’s just a whimsical squirrel on a skateboard. If it sparks joy, go for it.
Trust your gut, trust your artist, and trust that your skin is the perfect canvas.
Now go forth, dream big, and design boldly!
